Eventually, it will happen to you; be ready
Friday, May 22nd, 2009One of the most painful things is dealing with the death of a family member. Nolan had to deal with the death of his young father, and Mark had to deal with the death of his father and his mother-in-law. Mark’s dad had some health issues like heart trouble and diabetes, but even so, age 70 is relatively young in this day and age. Mark’s 69-year-old mother-in-law was completely healthy and was suddenly diagnosed with leukemia and died within 15 months. Nolan’s dad died of a sudden heart attack at the young age of 49.
What is common in all of these situations is that the unexpected happened. If we think about it, the unexpected happens on a regular basis. Are you prepared to deal with the unexpected? Have you done anything to protect yourself and your family if you suddenly become incapacitated or pass away unexpectedly?
Many people say, “That will never happen to me,” or if they don’t verbalize it, they say it by avoiding the necessary action to deal with such unexpected circumstances. Avoiding the inevitable doesn’t help when the unexpected occurs. Whatever your circumstances, it is important to have a will, power of attorney and health care directives in place. These documents will determine where your belongings will go if you die, who will take care of your children and who will act on your behalf if you become
incapacitated.
Mark’s mom was dependent on his dad. When Mark’s dad died, she did not know how to handle certain financial matters and needed a lot of help. Fortunately, Mark’s dad had put the proper documents in place that allowed her children to step in and help her take care of crucial financial matters.
As we get older, many of us get more in touch with our mortality. If you are a grandparent and are reading the article, do you know if your children or grandchildren have taken care of this important task? Do you know if guardians have been named for any minor grandchildren? Don’t make any assumptions about what will happen because a court of law may not come to the same conclusion. If this has not been done, perhaps you should show your children this article.
So, here is the question: Have you done what you need to do, or are you burying your head in the sand? Here is what to do: Pick up the phone and make an appointment with a good estate planner. Typically, you will need at least the basics, which would include a will, a durable power of attorney, a health care power of attorney, a living will and health information privacy authorization. While you’re at this meeting with your adviser, find out what other strategies are available if you want to do more than the basics. Good estate plans will consider how the financial planning overlaps with the estate planning. As the sayings go, “Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today,” and “Expect the unexpected.”
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